Saturday, January 23, 2010

Chokers Galore.....

Ok...I wanna start this blog with the mention of Aditi. Aditi Naik, who I know through my friend, Shashank Shetty. Aditi and I share one thing common...the love for Mammy Poco Pants! lol it the cutest thing! And I was just telling Adi that I was planning on another blog.

I have been trying to write for a while now but haven't found enough time...Saala time is so short now that I haven't spoken to a lot of my friends in quite sometime...friends I normally spoke to regularly.....lol woh choddo yaar...its now about Chokers...

South Africa are stuck with this Tag and they just proved it right against England...when they failed to win 2 test matches which they should have! Ditto with Pakistan who lost to Australia in a rather distasteful manner and I almost thought the match was rigged....and poor ol west indies have their own issues which transcended on to the field....

there's something about CHOKERS that no one likes...Chokers are people,teams, Individuals, Organizations who fail to rise to the occassion! who fail to up the ante and deliver...it's not a crime but it just goes to show the character of a side! South Africa are not deserving holders of that crown...damn it! but I was not writing this blog to talk bout Cricket...this was a more important issue.

Off Late, I have been seeing and reading a lot of Suicide stories, In the news, in the papers, In the magazines, by word of mouth. Its almost like suicide is the new IN thing and u will be called COOL posthumously if u suicide! people have been taking the jump, tying the knot rather regularly in that hope.... as if they will be conferred upon a honorary title or will be addressed a Late "COOL" XYZ! lol...

Even more surprising, is the number of kids doing it...owing to pressure! I don't blame the kids as much as the parents but both of them have to take blame for it. Kids get way too easily influenced these days becoz parents don't tell them whats right and whats wrong! Even funnier is that parents begin to burden the kids with the pressure of being first in class, first in sports, first to the loo, first to poop their pants, first in the line... they want their kids to be first everywhere and the only thing kids are succeeding in is "being first to suicide" !

its a grave situation! I don't understand why the government, instead of tackling this is making things easier for kids and making it look like a fault of the educatioon system!? The education system has been around for a long time and I have been through it. its rigorous, its tough, it is stupid but it is the education system which makes u strong enough for life....the solution to all these suicides is definitely not dropping papers and letting the school students keep terms or choose subjects and so on....instead the government should publish guidelines for kids and parents alike on how to deal with stress and on how to cope up with pressure and on how to treat KIDS AS KIDS and not WORK HORSES!

only if all parents were like mine or any of my friends' and treated kids like human beings...there will be lesser suicide cases and lesser kids will begin to choke.... choke under this pressure...but yes now everybody must be thinking everything is parent's fault...it actually is not! Cmon kids...even I was a kid one time....and my parents also gave me the same pressure...but I never got carried away! you should neither! the kids need to be more grounded...bloody hell kids are so fast maturing these days that they are threatening their parents with suicide attempts and what not! ...

DAMN IT CHOKER KIDS!.... I am not being judgemental but just being angry! Kids are loveable and beautiful! don't kill them with such pressures of education, of cutting their teeth into this dirty bread earning mill. pressures of excelling all the time! it's not the wya to treat a kid! Discipline and decorum is important...but not at the cost of their lives!

Anyways this is getting to my head....and so I am leaving!

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