as i write this am goin thru mixed emotions....my principles and my judgement were all put to test when dad passed away last month...it was a tragic period and thats when u get to see life's most darkest and truest colors....
we often realise how good we have been all the previous years during the time of acute crisis like this one...i was goin through a similiar anxiety...
its one comparable to performance anxiety because u have to stand up to the occasion and not let the event get the better of you...
its like a big match you play on the field...comparable to a final...the onus to win it is on you but you cannot do it without the support of your team mates...and this case my team mates were and have always been my friends...
they say a friend in need is a friend indeed and each one of my friends...prakash,koru,aadi,chabbu,rohan,ravi,gaurav,punit,bunny,lokesh,swapnil,rohit everyone has proved it true...
they also say that relations with love and affection as the basis are far greater than blood relations and that has been proved by the invaluable support i have got from my two foster sisters paro and poo...they have been the pillars of strenght for me and those guys above have been the cement that has bound it all together....
we have always called the gurls the weaker sex but i feel my gurls(that is my friends who are gurls) have proved that its not that ways....they have rose to this acute crisis in my life in an inexplicable manner....i really cannot decipher the emotions i feel when i talk of them...vaddu...rupali...neha..rajul...each one of them have been like a backbone in themselves...
they say behind every successful man theres a woman but i say there would be many women behind my success....
last but not the least my dad gave me the most valuable lesson in life at the end...about who are the people i need to protect and keep wid me in life forever like treasured gems...and it is my friends for sure....and he also taught me who are the fakers and i have spotted quite a few...but dont wanna name drop in here coz everyones done their best....
love ya my friends...am totally overwhelmed by the way you all have helped me through this phase and am proud of you all and about my own choice of people!cheers to all of you!
2 comments:
deepu .. it was ur support that i gave u back. for one good deed deserves another.. and as a friend had it been ne1 else i would have still done the same.... consider ur example of selflessly donating blood 3-4 times.. well the almighty gives it back when needed.. in one form or the other... i was just one of them ..
I dunno wat to say..not all people stay strong at situtations uv faced..n m glad u have frens whov helped u face them..consider urself lucky..n like wat loki said..wat goes around..comes around!!
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